11 WAYS HOW TO BE MORE FEMININE FOR YOUR MAN

Learning how to be more feminine for your partner is a desire that is impossible to resist. Strutting your confidence and femininity provides an understanding and reciprocity in your relationship. In this article, we will cover how to be more feminine for your man and examples.

WHAT ARE THE TRAITS OF A FEMININE WOMAN?

Thoughtful, caring, kind, nurturing, compassionate ….

There are many signs a woman is in her feminine trait whether that is with herself, in a relationship, or in a work environment. But no matter the scene a woman embodies a sensual charismatic friendly approach that cultivates a community around her.

Here are some feminine traits:

• You are kind and compassionate for others
• You are nurturing and empathic
• You embrace your creativity
• You are calm and compose your emotions
• You have a sensual and soft approach
• You understand the dynamics roles of the masculine
• You appreciate and are a lover of nature and the world around you
• You are confident and take care of yourself (self-care routines)
• You embody a powerful essence that is like a magnet
• You are understanding and have open communication

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11 WAYS ON HOW TO BE MORE FEMININE FOR YOUR MAN

1. TRUST & RESPECT HIM

2. LET HIM LEAD

3. MAKE HIM FEEL NEEDED

4. NOURISH PHYSICAL INTIMACY

5. SHOW HIM YOUR SUBMISSIVE SIDE

6. GIVE HIM SPACE WHEN HE COMES HOME FROM WORK

7. STOP NAGGING

8. EXUDE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

9. NOURISH HIS BODY WITH GREAT MEALS

10. KEEP UP WITH YOUR APPEARANCE

11. EMBRACE YOUR CONFIDENCE

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WAYS TO BECOME MORE FEMININE …

1. TRUST & RESPECT HIM

What masculine men want is not as hard as we ladies may think. However, building and maintaining a level of trust and respect go hand-in-hand with how strong your relationship is.

Your man wants to be respected and does not want to feel like he has another mother in his life. Respecting him comes in many forms and knowing the dynamics of your relationship is unique to everyone.

Do not belittle him and make him feel like he is nothing. Listen to him and trust in how to two of you will work out any probelms and mishaps that arises. Respect each other’s opinions even if it is not your own. Easier said than done, I know.

2. LET HIM LEAD

It’s easy for us women to want to take the lead on things and feel like we have to do it if we want it done right. But where does that leave him?

Allow yourself to let go and let him take the lead in areas of your life where it may be beneficial. Maybe he wants to stay in for the night and you want to go out? Perhaps you both have a big project coming up and you want to take charge.

Ask him if he minds taking on the responsibilities and if he needs any help you will be there to do so.

3. MAKE HIM FEEL NEEDED

There’s nothing more than begin a man in a relationship and not feeling needed. Every man likes to feel needed!

A man’s core concepts come from protecting and providing. If he is not able to fulfill these needs then he may feel useless and lose his sense of identity.

Ask for help from him even when it may not be needed. Many women feel pressure and coherence in society to be independent and do things on their own. Now, I am not saying men do not find this trait admirable but it will still make them feel desired and wanted.

Acknowledging him in this way lets him use his power and strength.

4. NOURISH PHYSICAL INTIMACY

Nourishing physical intimacy is more than just getting it on in the bedroom. This can be giving him a massage, rubbing his arm or back, or giving him eye contact.

It can be a closeness about igniting that fire back into your life by letting your partner know you desire them and that you are attracted to them. Your man wants nothing more than to know you are so into him.

5. SHOW HIM YOUR SUBMISSIVE SIDE

A man loves nothing more than knowing a woman is able to be submissive. Don’t believe me just ask around. Women are so ingrained with the idea of the “Anything a man can do a woman can do” mentality – which is not a realistic nor the best approach.

You can show him your submissive side in or outside of the bedroom, or both. If you find yourself where there is no power struggle but you are the one with the power then work on following his lead.

6. GIVE HIM SPACE WHEN HE COMES HOME FROM WORK

There is nothing more frustrating than having your partner not understand your boundaries or space that a man needs to reset throughout the day. Most of the time they just need quiet.

Just because he is quiet and reserved coming home from work does not mean there is something wrong. It may simply mean that he needs his brain to catch up to where he is which is home. Invite him in with a kiss, and help him get settled in without saying a word, let him go into another room without you following him.

Allow him to be him. He will come to you.

7. STOP NAGGING

The nagging can be you trying to figure things out that do not need to be figured out. Or him not doing something right, again. Come on ladies, we need to be more patient with our men like we are with our children.

We are two different species and the quicker you learn this than better off your relationship will be. You do not need to constantly bombard him with questions, or task that has not been done at the home.

Why can’t you just, you didn’t do it already, you said you would get it done. There are so many ways we can rephrase these sentences to not seem so controlling or naggy. I mean who really likes to be told what to do?

8. EXUDE EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT

Managing your emotions well may be a turn-on for many masculine men. Women who get angered and frustrated easily may make him feel like he is walking on eggshells with you. Not knowing when the next episode of madness and drama will continue again.

Composing your emotions and handling it in a logical way is what many men find sexy and alluring in women. It is the aggressive nature of women that may turn men off.

Ladies, keep your emotions in check and take some time to take a breather. This ish is not easy most times.

9. NOURISH HIS BODY WITH A GOOD MEAL

As women in our feminine energy, there is nothing more than nurturing and caring for others. So what are some ways we do that? By feeding them of course. Now, I am not saying stay in the kitchen and cook him 3-course meals 3 times a day!

What I am saying is if you are doing takeout more often because you both are too lazy to cook (do not ever say you do not know how to cook because you can learn, put in that effort).

Make healthy nourishing meals to help his body refuel.

10. KEEP UP WITH YOUR APPEARANCE

Who does not enjoy looking, smelling, and feeling their best? You’d be surprised at how many times we tend to let ourselves go after begin in a relationship. You gain weight, you walk around with a hair bonnet at all times of the hour, and you can go days without doing your self-care routines.

Take time to revive yourself back up and upgrade yourself, not only for yourself but for you man. He should also be doing the same thing.

11. EMBRACE YOUR CONFIDENCE

There is nothing sexier than a woman who is confident in her own skin. A woman who does not seek validation from others.

You do not have to be anything other than yourself for you to exude confidence. Now, do not confuse this arrogance or show a pompous nature – no, this is the confidence in embracing differences and knowing you do not have to be or act like anything other than yourself which is hard to do.

PERSONAL JOURNEY TO MY FEMININE IN A RELATIONSHIP

I never grew up with a father or a man figure in my life to know what it is that men want in a relationship. Despite the fact that every man may want something different it never dawned on me that I was operating from a more masculine side of things.

My mother was considered more masculine in her approach and so I’d like to think my personality stemmed from my childhood into my adult life.

I would always want to play with the boys and thought whatever they did I could probably do it better. Seem to always catch me competing with them and it slipped into my romantic relationships which clearly never worked out.

As I got older I came to my senses on alleviating some of my masculine tendencies when I am involved with a man. I came to a realization and appreciation of the role of a man.

My journey with the masculine has been interesting thus far. Learning how to tone down my aggressive-competitive nature, working on my cooking skills, not bombarding them with so many questions, and putting my insecurities on them.

FINAL THOUGHTS ON YOUR FEMININE SIDE

Despite the fact that it can be challenging, this path of becoming more feminine for your man can be the most beautiful and transformative path to cultivating your relationship.

As you grow more feminine in your approach, you truly feel connected to your partner which spills over into other aspects of your life.

Your relationships become more meaningful and authentic.

Your sex life improves as you become more attuned to your sensuality and confidence.

And you gift yourself the joy of experiencing life with more intention, presence, and vibrancy than ever before.

So if you’d love to learn more about how to integrate your feminine in specific aspects of your life, such as sexuality, explore our blog and sign up for our newsletter for much more!